"Just because you're wailing,
doesn't mean that you're a crier.
Just because I lied,
doesn't mean that
I'm a liar.
Just because they can choose,
doesn't mean you have a choice.
Just because they don't hear you,
doesn't mean you have no voice."
I love many of the observations Matthew McConaughey makes in his first book for children. I am not always a fan of celebrity fiction; some work really well, while others often fall flat. It's difficult to write a book for kids that is meaningful and worthwhile. For me, he has done just that!
As you can see from the opening quote, each phrase beings with two words - 'just because'. They make it clear to readers and listeners that each of us can be many things. I like to imagine the kinds of discussion reading them together might generate; it could be a memory, something that just happened, a new way of thinking.
This father of three kids is aware of the many pressures that come from social media, and just being a kid today. He wants his children and others to realize certain events in life, that may not have gone as well as hoped, do not define them as a person. Often it takes time and effort to really understand each other. It is worth the effort.
Reading this book together helps each participant grasp the differences in their thinking, and the value in considering other opinions. Winning digital artwork by Renee Kurilla adds to the overall effect that those thoughts have. The illustrations certainly help readers with full understanding of the remarks made. It is a book that encourages revisiting the many scenarios presented. Don't forget to take time to see what your kids have to offer - at school or at home. Let them start with 'just because'.
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