"What will you remember?
Grandma wants to know.
I smile, leaning against her
shoulder. Grandpa said to
listen to things.
Listen to the way life goes
on and on."
There was a time when finding a book to share with children concerning grieving and death was not an easy task. Today, we have a lovely abundance of excellent books that broach the subject for young listeners and offer a place to begin a conversation with those children dealing with the loss of a loved one.
A young girl lets readers know that her grandma has made her a 'white dress with angel sleeves'. Once dressed, she goes out to the porch to do her own hair as Grandma is busy. It's summer and there is much to see as she sits and remembers her grandfather's teachings about growth and the changes it brings. As the family gathers and guests arrive to pay respects to Grandpa, she wants to share a story about him. She cannot get the words out. Only tears. Grandma encourages, but Sarah cannot bring herself to share a memory.
As Sarah listens to what others are saying, she realizes that that their stories are the same. Grandpa told each of them that 'everything and everyone goes on and on'. It is true. Their visitors leave with hugs, kisses, and warm wishes; Sarah and Grandma wave goodbye. Together, the two sit on the porch in the darkness to talk about Grandpa. The sadness of loss remains. Watching as his garden grows and is then harvested keeps Grandpa in Sarah's heart through memories of times spent together.
This lovely, soft and warm story is told with eloquence, reminding us to think of our lost loved ones through memories of special times. Tonya Engel's images were created using acrylic underpainting, and completed using oils. They offer a look back at Grandpa and his teachings, his garden and at life without him. It is a lovely celebration of a life well lived.











