"Grandpa and Grandma explained
that you would never come back.
When we die, it's forever.
I gave my stuffie your name to
remember you."
The child's voice that shares this story is real and honest. It begins with the excitement and anticipation while waiting for the birth of a younger sibling. Everyone is busy with preparation for the baby's arrival. There is so much joy for all family members.
Finally, the day arrives. Grandma and Grandpa are there while all wait together for news from the hospital. When Mommy and Daddy return empty-handed and filled with sadness, there is confusion for the young child. What happened? Where is the baby?
The parents do their best to explain the stillbirth; the child draws a picture to be there when the baby returns. With help from Grandma and Grandpa about death being a forever thing, the child comes to the realization that there will be no baby now. As days go by, the fog of sadness begins to lift and life becomes a bit better.
"I never got to know you and play with you,
but I think of you a lot.
I've saved you a place in my heart."
Hard to read, but beautifully written for those who have suffered such loss. Perhaps you know a child or family who needs it.
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