The King of Jam Sandwiches, written by Eric Walters. Orca Book Pulishers. 2020. $12.95 ages

 

"Maybe we feel tired because we have to think about things other kids don't have to think about," I said. "That's probably it. Some people have to be older because of what life gives them. You have to be older just like I do. And so you know, like I said before, I won't tell anybody that you're poor," she said. "What?" "I won't tell anybody that you're poor." "I'm not poor." Harmony gestured around the room."

The two teens whose stories are told here will capture hearts and open readers to discussions of family, mental health, friendship, and fears. Both are surviving in the wake of truly dysfunctional parenting. It is with luck they find each other at school, and forge a strong and very supportive friendship. 

Robert is 13, and barely remembers the mother who died when he was young. His father is unable to properly care for his son. Robert describes his father's moods and behaviors as being on an elevator. The highs and lows he exhibits are only occasionally matched by a sense of things being normal. Robert cannot determine when the swings will happen. He lives in fear of the demands for perfection made of him, and for the periods of time when his father just disappears. He doesn't want anyone to know how bad things are, always fearing placement in foster care. 

Meeting Harmony, a new kid at school, brings a change for both. Harmony is not an easy friend or student. She is in foster care while her alcoholic mother is in rehab ... again. The beginning of their relationship is rocky. Robert's concern for Harmony and his support to help her stay in a caring foster home allows the new friendship to develop in a way that is mutually beneficial. Both are dealing with their parents' issues as best they can. 

Robert is a very good student who has managed to find his place in school, and at home. He knows what to do when the next crisis occurs and manages to remain an outstanding student and athlete while caring for his father to the best of his ability. Harmony is dealing with a complicated childhood, and many lasting scars. Her foster placement is a very good one, with a family who want what is best for her. As they spend time together and learn to trust one another, they are able to look forward to a better future. 

Both are amazing characters - strong, resilient, and worthy of the reader's attention and admiration. Their stories are realistic, compelling and often heartbreaking, and told with compassion. It's a keeper!