The Best Way To Get Your Way, written by Tanya Lloyd Kyi and illustrated by Chanelle Nibbelink. Kids Can Press, 2023. $19.99 ages 10 and up

 

"Kids who balance their hours of TV with 
extra house of sports still get the bad effects
of screens. When you're at school, you break 
up your study time with physical education,
walks through the hallways and trips to the 
playground. Our bodies need that sort of 
regular movement."

If you, the teacher, are interested in working with your students on learning the art of debate, you will find this book both useful and valuable in getting started. If you, the student, are interested in learning more about how debating works, this book will help you as well. 

This is a spirited way to begin learning the skills needed to have a conversation from both sides of an issue.  In the introduction, the author explains for readers the benefits of healthy discussions not meant to have a right, or wrong, answer. Debates allow a chance to hear the arguments, both pro and con, then make a personal decision about the issue at hand. 

Ten speakers are introduced, each trying their best to gain support for their side of their debate. The topics considered are: chores, screen time, vegetables, bedtime, and homework. An opening statement is made by each of the two debaters. Following that, the author presents some research done concerning the topic at hand. The rebuttal from both speakers is given in a response to the research offered. Finally, a closing argument is made, and the main points bulleted to help the reader make a decision. 

"Decision Time 

You're the judge in this debate. So whose 
side will you choose? You can make your 
room a neat and shiny space, free of 
distractions. Or you can try convincing 
your parents that a den of disorder will 
help you become a creative genius. When 
the sun rises tomorrow morning, and your
parents tell you to tidy ... 

Which way is your way?"

The formal structure of debating is detailed and helpful when learning the art. The need for solid research is evident. Selected sources are listed in back matter, as well as a glossary, index, and suggestions for reading more if so inclined. Digital artwork matches the energy of the text, offering entertaining and contextual images. Numerous sidebars offer practical information and advice. 

Ms. Kyi presents a much-needed sentiment for the times we are living in right now.

 "If we take the time to debate, to exchange ideas – and most importantly – to listen, we might just expand our minds."